Join the search for that bit of luxury that adds to our lives without breaking the piggy bank. Feel free to contribute your thoughts and suggestions.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Video Break
Paint A Pretty Picture...
Last night I was invited to a party that required I put on a face. So instead of following my daily routine of applying spot concealer, using the eyelash curler before the mascara and dabbing out lip gloss I pulled out the heavy artillery and applied the works. The works for me means a light foundation, eye shadow, eye liner, eye lash curler, blush, liner and lip gloss. I had to wonder if it all added at least 1lb to my weight, but I digress again. 
Friday, January 30, 2009
Video Break - WOW!
Happening - Vintage Clothing & Antique Textile Show & Sale

Thursday, January 29, 2009
Oiled and Scented
Even after all the perfume sampling I have yet to purchase a new fragrance. While I continue to weigh my options and follow my nose instead of going sans scent each day I reach into my collection of ATTAR BAZAAR fragrance oils and dab on which ever single note oil I am drawn to. Sometimes I wear two or three layered atop each other. Because I am really enjoying the results I am in no hurry to even purchase someone elses fragrance and I am even considering just re-stocking these wonderful oils as my supply depletes with use.If interested, you can buy them directly from ATTAR BAZAAR's site, but I have also seen them at Whole Foods. http://www.attarbazaar.com/
I really love their connoisseur collections kits. They contain 6 drams of beautiful enticing fragrance oils that you can mix or match or wear alone and each kit only cost $19.95 plus shipping. http://www.attarbazaar.com/cgi-bin/hazel.cgi/hzpi/u/HzSt01130n111711110n120U0n101110120m15171711/hazel.cgi?action=serve&item=fragrances/connoisseur.htm
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Happening - Free Music Tonight in Willamsburg, Brooklyn
It's snowing in New York as I type this post. The snow will turn to rain but if you're adventurous make your way to Phoebe's Cafe 323 Graham Ave in Williamsburg, Brooklyn tonight to check out the Underground Horns (http://myspace.com/undergroundhorns).They're playing at 7PM for FREE
To get to Phoebe's take the L train to Graham Ave - http://www.phoebescafe.com/ or http://www.myspace.com/phoebescafe(for direct access to event listings).
Curls, Curls, Curls
Now that flat straight hair is on its way out I feel no shame when pulling out my set of Conair CHV14J Instant Heat Jumbo Supersized Electric Rollers to add some volume and wave. Using the extra super clips - see pic -that I purchased separately makes it easier to lock in the velvet flocked rollers until they have cooled. In about 5 minutes I have bouncy full volumed hair.
You can buy this set and the extra clips from amazon.com -http://www.amazon.com/Conair-CHV14J-Instant-Jumbo-Sized-Rollers/dp/B00005A441/ref=tag_tdp_sv_edpp_pop_t/190-7188397-5868725Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Doctor's Orders

Monday, January 26, 2009
Happening - Xin Nian Kuai Le

Change of Color
I am a brunette with reddish tendencies. With the exception of my birth, that one chlorine filled summer and experiments in rock star color strips againt black I have always been a brunette with reddish
tendencies. I have no blonde ambitions but I do enjoy spicing up my brown hair every now and then with home dye kit that keep things as close to my natural shade as possible. The problem is that most at home kits either lighten brown hair to shades reaching to be blonde or red or darken it towards flatter black hued colors, all of which do not flatter most natural brunette, especially when our faces are clean of make-up. Because of this I am finding my self pleasantly surprised by the results I have had with Loreal's Natural Match Color (http://coupon.naturalmatch.com/ - get $2.00 coupon). This drug store available No-Ammonia Glossy Finish At-Home dye kit offers a range of natural looking color options that gently shift the shade of your hair so that the final results compliment your skin tone. Whether you choose to enhance
your real shade or change it all together the results are amazing. Of course this product has been on the market for a while now, but if you're like me and tend to be confused by all the options on the beauty and drug store shelves I am hoping this review encourages you to reach for this product.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Happening - Musical Mingling
I love pandora.com. It is a website that allows you to create a continous playing radio station based on a specified musician, song title or genre. If you register you can keep a playlist of those stations and that playlist will share details about the artist and music, make recommendations and allow you to purchase anything you want to download and own.Friday, January 23, 2009
Naturally Plumped...
A few days ago I stopped into the local Duane Reade Drugstore for a few things and was confronted by a mass mark-down in their cosmetic section. Many of the products were marked 50% off because the companies are preparing to introduce their spring lines and the store needs to move the autumn/winter merchandise. Most of the displays were already emptied by fellow discount seekers but I did buy Sally Hansen's Natural Beauty Moisture Plump Lip Balm for under $4.oo.Olay'd Again...

Thursday, January 22, 2009
Still Hunting ...
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Video Break..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YIARjuYOaAY
The only idol I remember....
Well Healed with A Wedge...
My first pair of heels were a brown leather pair of wedges that despite the girly like bow on top were sleek and sexy to a thirteen year old. I wore those shoes to death and only let them go once my feet out grew them and I was able to fit into a pair of my mother's real heels, a pair she'd forgotten she had. Sneaking them out of the house and changing into them on my way to school was far easier than requesting a pair of honest high heels. So you can imagine that a well made wedge d
esigned so that the space between the toe and the heel tapers toward each other in an elegant rise always makes me stop and take notice.Wedges are back, though they have never really left the building.
Have a look around and consider. Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Welcoming Change -

"We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.." - Obama
Something Bad on the Wind..

Monday, January 19, 2009
This Afternoon's Thought
Botox Alternative on the Cheap
I bet today's title got your attention.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Opera on the Cheap
This Tuesday, January 20th, you may find me standing in line, sans my Brunhilda helmet, in hopes of being able to purchase tickets to see that night's performance of the opera Orfeo ed Euridice (review - http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/12/arts/music/12orfe.html) .Thanks to a generous gift from Met Board member Agnes Varis and her husband, Karl Leichtman, two hundred orchestra seats for regular performances of this season's operas are available for $20 each. The tickets for Monday through Thursday performances can be purchased at the Met box office (30 Lincoln Center Plaza -Columbus Ave between 62nd St and 65th St). Check their website for performances, availability and pick up time - http://www.metoperafamily.org/metopera/varis/
If tickets aren't available for that evening's event I will do the next best thing and listen to it being broadcaste in New York on WQXR-FM, 96.3. The Metropolitan Opera International Radio Broadcaste Information Center (http://www.operainfo.org/stationfinder/ ) lists stations around the country and in Canada that air their programs. If you're in New York City you can by pass the search and go directly to WQXR's site for scheduling (http://www.wqxr.com/cgi-bin/iowa/index.html ) for scheduling.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Happening - January 17-19th Multicultural Festival of Music, Dance & Story

Fashion Forward..
Friday, January 16, 2009
Video Break for Andrea
Today my friend Andrea and I talked about the confusion many of us women have about owning our sexuality vs. being manipulated into believing that one must flaunt it in a certain way to get the attention and affection we each desire. We both agreed that we are all just animals doing a mating dance, but the dance seems to have been extremely distorted by the globalization of media driven images of women that don't physically or emotionally age. This impression is being transmitted on such a vast scale that it is redefining the sexual expectations of the world and if we are not individually diligent about knowing and owning who we truly are we can end up being a caricature of the woman we truly want to be.So today I am "Pinking" my friend with "Stupid Girls", not because she is one, but because it expresses in a nut shell what we were discussing....
And for the record I am blessed to have my friends who define themselves not only by their looks but their intellect, humor, creativity and humanity. I am greatful.
Sweet Indulgence

Thursday, January 15, 2009
Video Break - Pinked
Cooking by the Book

I know a number of people that love cook books more than they love to cook and satisfy their lust by reading anything written on the culinary arts. Regardless of why you love them if you wander up town to 1435 Lexington Avenue (between 93rd & 94th St) you will come across Kitchen Arts and Letters, a bookstore that houses one of the largest collections of cook and food books out there.
You can visit their website, www. Kitchenartsandletters.com, for a sampling of what they offer but it's better to visit the store and get lost for hours while you browse through the most recently published books as well as older, out of print works. Don't hesitate to speak with the knowledgeable staff. They will gladly help you locate just about any book ever written on the subject of food or cooking in whatever language you feel comfortable reading.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Video Break
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxtvHxQllzM&feature=PlayList&p=13ACACC276603EBC&index=0&playnext=1
Ikea Sewing Idea
A few weeks ago I decided to make a pair of simple moderately weight curtains to cover the sheers that are curently hanging in the bedroom windows. The room's 3 windows require a curtain no shorter than 86" in length for them to look like a full real curtain instead of a mistake. Rather than take my chances at the few local fabric stores left in my area off to IKEA I went. For those of you who sew home items such as pillows, chair and sofa covers, table cloths and placemates or curtains Ikea is actually an ideal place to find relatively inexpensive fabrics ($2.99-7.99 per yard) in widths that accomodate such sewing. The fabric is seasonal and often reflects the color and patterns of their current lines but they also always carry upholstry quality cotton in solid colors, 56" wide, for $2.99 a yard. A total of 6 panels, 2 per window, ended up costing me only $54 and an afternoon of my time.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Another Religious Experience with Toast
Once upon a time, a long, long time ago, after a long night of drink and dance friends and I wrote an ode to toast while watching the sun come up. The poem is much too bad to share with you here but my love of toasted bread isn't.Sinner or Saint be healed..
At the recommendation of my friend Jennifer I sought out the Lipstick Queen's display at Bigelow's at 414 6th Avenue this Sunday in hope of finding the ultimage libstick. We have both discussed the trials of dry winter lips and our distaste for the need to constantly re-apply lipstick that just ends of caking and drying and never appears to be as glamorous as their adverts make them out to be so when she recommended that I investigate this brand of lipstick I knew it was worth the trip.Poppy King's Lipstick Queen line is created for a lipstick addict. The colors are vibrant yet natural and the lipsticks come in 2 options, Sinner, a pigment loaded matte color that lasts and lasts without drying the lips and Saint, a sheer tint that hints at use of color. The Sinner option does go on a bit dry but the pigment stays and stays and stay. I prefer the Saint Lipsticks because they glide on and leave a sheer shine that doesn't end. Each $18.00 tube of lipstick and it's Deco inspired pack card comes in an individually sealed plastic package. If you're someone who wears lipstick on a daily basis you won't be disappointed in this investment. I ending up buying the tubes in nude for everyday use.
Monday, January 12, 2009
Heavy Metal Luxury

In the heart of what is still known as New York's little Brazil is a store filled with all manner of metal and bead for both the professional and home jewelry maker. Metalliferous, located at 34 West 46th Street, is jammed packed with every thing one can dream of and more to use to make jewelry and other craft items.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Despite Current Economy..We Still Want Our Toys..
Yoga for the People

Like most New Yorkers I know I have done and still do yoga. Unfortunately the cost for maintaining a studio practice was straining my budget so I began do the work at home. Practicing in solitude actually deepened my experience, but on the occassion I need to be part of a group and want to flow with an instructor I make my way to Yoga For the People at 12 St. Marks Pl. between 2nd and 3rd Ave( http://www.yogatothepeople.com/schedule.shtml) .
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Happening - Fashioned Images
There was a time when I had subscriptions to almost every mainstream fashion magazine out there but after more than a few years of pawing through them I finally realized that they each pretty much presented the same articles and clothing trends every month. To give my postman a break I cut down to
From these magazines I cull images that I keep in inspiration files. I refer to those files when I am rehashing my wardrobe by either buying classic pieces or low end versions of those trends. More importantly some of the images are so beautiful I just can't part with them. So if you love fashion images as much as I do beginning this month the International Center of Photography at 1133 Avenue of the Americas (6th Ave & 43rd St) hosts an exhibition of the high fashion photographs of Edward Steichen. 
Friday, January 9, 2009
If the Shoe Fits, Buy It
A once around the store reminded me why I stopped shopping at this trendy moderately priced label carrying shoe store. The shoes either tower on heels well over 4 inches or are so flat that your feet kiss the ground when walking. They don't seem to carry anything in between and though the labels are recognisible their market is definitely the 20somethings crowd that likes young hip loud labels like Baby Phat, BCB Girls, Guess, Roccawear and Jessica (cough-cough) Simpson. Despite this I couldn't help but admire the shoes they did have. Each was a statement in itself. They sell shoes meant to be the center of the outfit. Even the shoes that were for "career: and "casual" wear were either extremely high heeled or attention getters. I did find the same pair of mock-motorcycle walking boots I was wearing at the time on sale from $129.95 to $29.95. I hadn't purchased them for their original selling price and because my pair had seen better days couldn't help but snap up their replacements before heading across the street to Macy's. Thursday, January 8, 2009
Your Help Is Needed New Yorkers
The Wildlife Conservation Society (Bronx Zoo, Prospect Park Zoo, Central Park Zoo, Queens Zoo and Aquarium) is facing severe cuts in the Governorʼs proposed budget. WCS could lose 55% of the current yearʼs funding and total elimination next fiscal year. These state budget cuts will have serious consequences on our living institutions. Our goal is to obtain 50,000 petition signatures and on-line messages delivered to the Governor and legislative leaders by March 1, 2009.
Living institutions (zoos, aquarium, botanical gardens, etc) are crucial!
Today's Video Break Does Not Amuse My Male Friends
Just got this cd..loving most of the tracks, but sharing the 1st hit...Happening - FIT Exhibition

The museum, which started in 1967, maintains and chronicles the history of fashion by archiving, exhibiting, publishing and offerring various programs that document and explore
clothing, accessories, textiles and visual materials pretaining to fashion.
The current exhibiton SEDUCTION, running from Dec 9, 2008 through June 16, 2009, explores the role of sexuality in fashion. Using selections form the museums's permanent collection the exhibition will feature over seventy looks from the mid-eighteenth century to the present.
If you visit before February 21, 2009 you will also be able to catch the GOTHIC: Dark Glamour exhibition before it closes. With more than 75 ensembles set in theatrical mise-en-scene suggesting iconic gothic settings this exhibition explores the history and present day representation of what has come to be known as the "Goth" look.
http://www.fitnyc.edu/aspx/Content.aspx?menu=FutureGlobal:Museum


